It's a crazy world that we live in. It's funny in the fact that people want to be taken for the things that they say, not what they've done, what they stand for, the values and morals they stand on, or anything. None of this is EVER shown anymore, but the funny thing about that is that everybody CLAIMS to be real and how 100 they are or that's how they keep it. I find that to be highly hilarious sometimes. I mean EVERYWHERE you turn, somebody is saying how REAL they are, how they are this, how they are that. Both genders cant get enough of sayin it, but I find that it's my gender that speak on it the most. I think we should take the time to define the word "real." From the Webster's Colligiate Dictionary, it goes like this:
Real: (adj.) 1. of or relating to fixed, permanent, or immovable things. 2. not artificial, fraudulent, illusory, or apparent : GENUINE; being precisely what the name implies
When you break that down into today's culture, what does real become then? Who says who's real and who's fake? What factors about someone shows them to be real or fake? Appearances? Dress quality? Shoe game? What they make? Where they live? How much they making? If those are used to determine someone's realness level, then that person is superficial as all fuckin hell then and chances are, they are 1 of the fake 1s in the world.
I mentioned earlier how both genders tend to have to speak on how real they are, but I, rather I should say, the world KNOWS that my gender tends to let that shit fly out their mouths way more than is necessary. NIGGAS, and it's fuckin sad that I gotta refer to my own gender like that, but I mean, until ya'll niggas grow the fuck up and start standin on your own 2 and becoming men, it's how me, the REAL WOMEN, the REAL MEN, and the world will refer to grown ignorant lil kids, but back on topic. To the NIGGAS, it's hella funny how ya'll are the first, and hella quick to say it, how ya'll are SOOOOOOOO real, how you aint like all the niggas in a woman's past, and are HELL BENT on tellin her that she either needs to fuck with a real nigga or that she's fuckin with a real nigga. If she was really fuckin with a REAL NIGGA, then you would have been up front sayin that you simply wanted pussy and left it at that. It wouldnt have been no need to try and get her heart, hurt her, and she eventually hates your fuckin guts. Being real is being able to be genuine and honest in the things you say you do and knowing that if you're true to yourself, nobody needs to care why you do or say what you do. If you gotta say how real you are and gotta preach to the heavens how real you are, you aint shit but another statistic of fake people, REAL talk lol.
But, now I have to turn my attention to the women. While it's true that some of the women who really do say they are real really are (at least the 1s that I've come across), there's something that you do that makes that real shit fly right out the window. Everybody knows that "real recognize real." That's 1 of the few truths in this world, but ladies, do YOU recognize it? I cant begin to tell you how many good MEN, let me say that again, MEN, myself included, got and continue to get passed over because a woman couldnt see when someone was bein truly genuine and honest with them. Apparently, good, honest, and true REAL men were passed over for the NIGGAS in men's clothing, so to speak. Is it that good and honest men arent in style right now? Or is the fake nigga, studio gangsta bullshit just too big a damn fad that good men are overlooked? Women, 1 thing that I CONSTANTLY praise ya'll about is that ya'll can EASILY see when a NIGGA aint bein real with you. Since that's the case, why is it that ya'll cant see through a NIGGA's lies now? If you know DEEP down in your heart and soul that a NIGGA cant do shit for you and that you want somebody who can be REAL with you and TRULY love you for the person you are, WHY IN THE BLUE HELL do you pass over the good men who are real with you and dont have to say nothin to prove that?! Why do you choose the NIGGA who gotta preach and convince you that he's real enough to be with to be with you JUST for him to fuck you a few times, play with you, leave you when he gets bored and he's on to the next 1, leaving you heartbroken and pissed at men for this dumb ass NIGGA'S mistake? You AND him both knew that he just wanted to fuck and you let him anyway, so what can you honestly expect when he leaves you?
Only 1 real true statement can be said about bein real. "Realness isnt spoken, it's shown through actions." That's something to think about the next time you run up on somebody SAYING that they're real...
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